A fork of Rural Dictionary
All of the sex with none of the commitment
Boy: Hey do you want to date me? Girl: No I don't want anything serious. What about friends with benefits? Boy: Just hooking up? Sure.
Characterized by an intimate relationship with a friend in a specific way that has no intention or future in dating. I.e holding hands, sex, drunk kissing. These people may have an emotional connection as friends but have none in intimacy with each other. Can get confused with friends that on occasion date, but the difference is mutual intentions. Friends with Benefits is a relationship status with preset boundaries. if or once those boundaries are crossed, the friendship is what is sacrificed.
They are just friends with benefits.
Two individuals to afraid of commitment but they like to fondle with each other in private and public, especially when friends are around.
Brandia S. and John M. are friends with benefits
When friends let you use their address in Manhattan so that you can order food from Seemless.com with would not deliver to your own address.
Mark: You want to get some take out from Max Brenner? I know Jenny living on 13th st, we can get it ordered there since she is one of my friends with benefits.
A common term among those single people in their 30's. Either they are divorced or have been in a serious relationship. Which ever scenario fits, these people do not understand terms such as slut, whore, love at first sight and other uniformed thoughts.
being able to be a friend with benefits means you are more aware of difference between sexual chemistry and conection and can act on it with responsibility. Ever seen Sex and the City? THAT defines it all and in a funny way. I am sure many can relate. After 30 there are no inhibitions and no judgements. A single night of sex between consenting adults is common talk over coffee in the morning with you best girlfriends.
An illegal arrangement in which friendship is bartered for any kind of "benefit", or gain. It is considered insider trading, and also prostitution.
My friend with benefits lives at the apartment for free but she has to be available when I want her. Her benefit is I pay the rent.
A true "Friends with Benefits" relationship is CASUAL sex relationship between poor females (or any needy female) and a financially generous sugar daddy (from the upperclass and middle class but especially upperclass). Having sex with non financially generous males and poor males is NOT a benefit since poor males more typically GET benefits from government entities in the form of welfare.. not GIVE benefits. "Friends with benefits" and "casual sex" are not the same thing. A girl with a special sugardaddy friend who pays her bills with whom she has sex with in return for his financial generosity .. is in a true contemporary modern example of a REAL friends with benefits relationship.
"wow, Lisa has a sugardaddy. He pays her bills for her and she gives him sex but she is 27 and he is 50. Are they lovers? They cant possibly be true lovers with that age gap" "nope. They admit they aren't LOVERS per se. They are friends. They are in a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS RELATIONSHIP. The benefit is that she doesn't have to pay for cable television or net hookup. But if he was a poor guy ... it would just, instead, be a casual sex relationship with no real tangible benefits returned to her. She'd still have to work extra hours to get a better cable tv package"