A fork of Rural Dictionary
Xander is the kind that has a lot of emotion. Xander is kind and sweet to the people he loves. Xander is in touch with things that seem to be hidden to other people. He's most admired for bravery and emotional strength. Xander has hidden powers that no one can come to understand.
To be a Xander is to be unique.
Xander is the guy you see rejecting others just because he thinks they won't like him eventually. He puts up a wall around himself and tears himself down so others won't see how prideful he really is (Only a few close friends, family, and lovers can see that). On the inside though he is one of the most kind, unique, adorably quirky, and generous people you will ever find. If you find this rare and amazing creature keep it because there isn't ever going to be another like him. He can be really stubborn and will stand his ground in an argument (unless it's that special someone). He is really tall and has the most beautiful blue eyes. Xander is very ambitious with his goals for the future so he works very hard to get there. He thinks having a crush is what love feels like, until he meets that one who makes him really fall in love. When Xander is in love, best believe he will shower you with love and gifts and hugs as often as he can. He needs to be consistently reminded that he is enough, that he is loved, to be himself, and to tear that wall down.
Person 1: *zones out* Person 2: Xander? Person 1: How'd you know, Person 2: I was too
He’s a fucking moron lmao. However he’s a nice person so I guess you should be friends with him
Person 1: Hey look it’s Xander Person 2: shit
You'd be incredibly lucky to fall in love with one. They put their whole entire heart in your hands, and are the perfect boyfriend. While they're a nerd, it's in the best and sweetest way.
I love you Xander. Shannon: I'm dating this guy, and he's absolutely perfect and I can't stop thinking about him. Abbigail: He must be a Xander. I wish I could find me a Xander.