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bi lesbian

A term that has been used for decades to reflect women who feel their identity is not fully covered by the term "bisexual" or "lesbian." The term "bi lesbian" may be used by someone who is primarily attracted to women but feels their occasional attraction to men is relevant to their identity, as they have experienced both lesbophobia and biphobia. The term may also be relevant to some femme non-binary people. The term is often rejected by those concerned with policing queer language, some of whom feel that the terms "bisexual" or "lesbian" are somehow undermined by the existence of bi lesbians.

"A person who identifies as bi lesbian isn't going to stop feeling that way just because some people are unduly skeptical of LGBTQ people using unfamiliar terms."

by Vee2TheZee April 20, 2022

Bi Lesbian

A bi lesbian, sometimes also referred to as pan lesbian, is a woman who is primarily attracted to women but has some limited attraction to men. Most commonly, Bi lesbians have romantic and sexual attraction to women, but for men, the attraction is exclusively sexual, or exclusively romantic. A bi lesbian can also be a woman who primarily dates women and is attracted to women, but will sometimes very occasionally date or have sexual relations with a man.

Guy: Hey, would you go on a date with me?
Girl: Sorry, I don't date men.
Guy: I thought you said you where bi though?
Girl: I'm a bi lesbian, not bi. I have physical attraction to men, but no romantic attraction to them.

by katonakob August 21, 2020

Bi lesbian

A lesbian who exclusively dates women, but has sex with men ONLY in the form of pegging them.

Bi lesbians are valid, stop trying to gatekeep sexuality.

by Anonnonya23 October 17, 2020

bi lesbian

bi lesbian is when a woman/girl has romantic feelings with a woman and men but prefers woman.

Jenny: im bi sexual with a pref of girl
Justin: since your bi can I go out with you?
Jenny: sorry I prefer girls a lil more...
Justin: *in his head god damn it I like her...
bi lesbian is when a woman/girl has romantic feelings with a woman and men but prefers woman.

by luyjvh March 29, 2022

Bi-lesbian

In lesbian relationships there are two females that take a role. What I mean by that is that one girl can be more masculine then the other or the girl can be more feminine then the other partner or they are both partners are in the middle. Some lesbian partner can both be on the more masculine side and feminine side together at the same time. The meaning of bi-lesbian is a sex of a female that can play all the roles in the lesbian relationship. This is where the meaning of bi comes in play.

Amy: I am bi-lesbian and I wanted to finally let you know that.

DMT: I will always accept you and you will always be my friend.

by DMT3487 June 09, 2021

Bi/pan lesbian

Bisexual people who don’t understand they’re still bi even if they have a preference towards a certain gender

“I’m a bi/pan lesbian!”
Do you even know what does words mean?

by btstanked August 25, 2021