A fork of Rural Dictionary
The male half of a couple engaged in the hotwife kink that helps his partner hook up with men she finds attractive. He may break the ice, build her up in conversation, and help her with logistics. A wingman husband will approach this as a partnership for her to get what she desires, though the hotwife kink often does not involve the husband playing as a threesome. (That's it's own thing. See swinger and threesome.)
This term arose to differentiate from a "cuckhold", who is the male half of a hotwife couple that plays in the context of submission or a humiliation fetish.
A wife acting in the same role as a wingman husband is called a "wing woman".
Wife: "Oh, he looks hot. Do you feel like being my wingman husband tonight?"
Husband: "Hang tight, baby. I'll see if he's alone and wants to come over for a drink."
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Ineffable husbands
A mans asshole that is able to accommodate a large penis on a regular basis while still maintaining tightness.
I went on a few dates with this guy and he has such a husband hole. He took it no problem and it didn't feel used at all.
When a fan of a series (usually a woman) is too afraid to do anything that might offend another fan's fictional husband.
Emma: Oh my gosh. Nico is so hot.
Kate: You know he's gay, right?
Emma: WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME? NICO LOVES ME MORE THAN ANYONE! YOU'RE JUST STUPID, SHUT UP!
And that's how Kate's husband issues began.
A man within a relationship who, with the approval and encouragement of his partner, engages sexually with others, typically while the partner observes as a voyeur. The "hot-husband" may exhibit varying degrees of dominance or submissiveness within the primary relationship and is showcased and motivated to have sexual interactions outside of it. The term encompasses a spectrum of behaviors and dynamics, but central to the concept is the partner's pivotal role in directing and deriving pleasure from the "hot-husband's" external sexual encounters. The involvement of the partner may range from observation (i.e. in-person / filmed / detailed story-telling / etc.) to participation, with distinctions made from swinging based on the nature and context of the interactions.
Ever since they embraced the hot husband lifestyle, Kevin felt a newfound sense of freedom and excitement, knowing his partner not only approved but was also actively involved in orchestrating his external sexual encounters.
In their exploration of non-traditional relationship dynamics, Alex identified as a hot husband, relishing the freedom and support his partner offered in pursuing sexual encounters with others, while his partner enjoyed the thrill of observing and guiding these adventures.
“Yeah, we can fuck. You’re going to have to ask my partner first - he’s got to approve and he’s going to watch it all go down.”
“My bf is away for work and I have a hall-pass to fuck, but only if we film. We live that hot husband life and I get off on getting him off with my shenanigans.”