A fork of Rural Dictionary
The amount of control possessed by each person in a romantic relationship. Short for 'the upper hand', it is a lighthearted way of describing the shift of control in a relationship, based on the assumption that one person tends to have the upper hand over the other.
Coined in Seinfeld episode "The Pez Dispenser"
George: No everything is *not* going good. I'm very uncomfortable. I have no power. I mean, why should she have the upper hand. *Once* in my life I would like the upper hand. I have no hand-- no hand at all. She has the hand; I have *no* hand...
How do I get the hand?
Jerry: We all want the hand. Hand is tough to get. You gotta get the hand right from the opening.
Homophonous English term for a Chinese slang "han de han si", often followed by loud louds, or "lao de lao si", meaning those who have zero sex never get laid while the sex addictive sluts get all the sex.
*someone posts something after having sex or sharing his/her sex life*
"Again? this is really hand hands, loud louds"
When someone has no street fighting skills at all.
Bluhd, that nigga Jose got his ass beat, he got no hands!
She hella weak, she has no hands.
me
My friend: You're a handful you know that?
Me: Yes.