A fork of Rural Dictionary
A lesbian who prefers to dress in a butch/masculine/androgynous way, but may have a more feminine attitude; considered the opposite of a “chapstick lesbian”
Person A: “Where do you fall on the futch scale?”
Person B: “I’m a soft butch.”
A woman who looks butch and is the more courtly partner, yet is not rigid about her role.
She looks butch, but she loves to cook.
a female that is more masculine in additude, but not so much in the way she looks
she acts butch, but doesnt look butch
soft lesbian that is masculinity just super confusing
she is a soft butch
A Soft Butch is a Butch Lesbian who presents herself as mostly masculine, but has some feminine traits.
Anastasia is a Soft butch. She'll buy most of her clothes from the Men's section and then spend hours on her makeup.