A fork of Rural Dictionary
A homosexual male who prefers more often than not to engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, kissing, frottage, rimming, mutual masturbation, erotic massage, other countless acts of foreplay, etc), as opposed to penetrative anal sex.
Person one: “So are you a top, or a bottom?”
Person two: “If it comes to anal sex I’m more of a top, but generally I’d consider myself mostly a side.”