A fork of Rural Dictionary
Literally the ONLY people you'll ever get to hang out with if you don't stop taking everything so goddamn seriously and grow a thick skin.
"You take things too seriously, either grow a thick skin, or hang out with Indonesians the rest of your life"
The #1 most overused excuse used by Asian parents to justify beating the fuck out of their kids yet still get surprised when that only makes them even worse.
Korean kid: I can't believe you beated me up last night over crappy grades and kicked me out of the house. Parent: It was just disciprine. I only did that because I love you. Kid: bruh
(Pronounced bo-chill) A term meaning "cringy Indonesian child", literally the most inferior and disgusting beings on earth. Behaviors include but are not limited to invading your personal space, using cringy and outdated humor in a pathetic attempt to win you over, and have unhealthy obsessions over anything to the point they worship them like a new religion. You know you're a special kind of loser if this is literally the only demographic you're able to get along with. Matter of fact, you'd actually be even LESS of a loser and FAR less humiliating if you didn't have anyone to get along with at all. For some reason, they're mostly like this towards Koreans, particularly girls who wear hijabs everywhere to cover their bald heads.
Bocil: *literally standing an inch away* "Anyeong chingu/hyung/oppa! I made a soap sculpture of you and I can make you more because you so jjang! Saranghamnida!" Korean: "Fuck off bocil" Bocil: "But I want to be your chingu/hyung/oppa! Jjebal!" Korean: "Go be someone else's chingu/hyung/oppa" Bocil: "Your rudeness makes me sarang you even more! Your daebak is over 9000!" Korean: 💀
The three magic words to get someone in instant maximum trouble and automatically unwelcome in any group indefinitely.
A: *literally just exists* B: He makes me uncomfortable A: *banned forever*
The most sure way to make absolutely everyone hate you. It's the absolute most DESPICABLE fucking thing a human being can ever do. Bar fucking none. I will say this once, and I will not say it again: NEVER. GET. DEFENSIVE. It'll be the absolute last fucking thing you'll ever do. Mark my fucking words.
A: *gets defensive* A: *gets hated by everyone* A: *Surprised Pikachu face*
The gaslighter's bread and butter. The word you will most likely hear from them if you do anything other than acknowledge and accept their bullshit in some lame attempt to guilt trip you into doing it.
Gaslighter: *throws bullshit at victim* Victim: *angrily reprimands gaslighter for it* Gaslighter: "See, you're being defensive, stop it"
Literally the WORST quality to a human being ever. Bar fucking none. We might as well officially declare it the 8th deadly sin. It's very common among those who are incapable of taking a harmless little joke and take every single thing so goddamn personally; the biggest red flag is how they'd always accuse someone of "bullying" them then get all defensive when they predictably get told otherwise, refusing to admit they're wrong and work on growing a thick skin and learning to control themselves.
A: "They were bullying me yesterday" B: "Bruh, they were only teasing. Drop your victim mentality and grow up."