A fork of Rural Dictionary
A Dender is a male whore who is usually an escort by day and barback (who likes it bareback) by night. Denders can typically be seen driving trucks, and offering roofie-colodas to minors. Denders are usually very eclectic in their musical selection, but not too selective about their prey.
"Shes going home with him?"
"Hes such a Dender..."
When a man or women has a sex-change and become gay or lesbian.
My boyfriend is a dender <3
A male who plays the nice guy act like no other, but is in fact a manwhore.
"Hey, have I told you that you have the most beautiful eyes? I'd love to take you out sometime" *wink*
"No thanks, dender."
to not belong to any gender. for instance you might have a penis but decide to act and dress as if your were a female however you do not want to be called male or female because they are just words and you just want to be classified as a human.
josie is a dender.