A fork of Rural Dictionary
A gay male with feminine gestures and remarks. See gay aiken or ryan seacrest
Dale: "OMFG I love that blouse Daisy where did you get it? Is that from Forever 21 cause it's gorgeous!" Gary to John: "What a fem, total yes homo".
(n.) A man who displays feminine conduct; one who wears girl jeans and has a fauxhawk; one who backs down from an altercation.
Look at that dude! he's wearing abercrombie board shorts and a scarf, and it's 400 degrees outside! what a fem!
A very Beautiful woman, Who is irresistibly sexy And can get anyone she wants.
Oh my god, that chick is one hot Fem. she is such a fem, You dirty fem!
Abbreviated from the word feminine, fem refers to a person on the LGBT spectrum who demonstrates behaviors that are stereotypically associated with women. Most often, these behaviors are exaggerated in an effort to fetishize femininity. For instance, a fem gay man might wear makeup or use animated hand gestures. A fem lesbian might make a point to wear dresses or carry a purse. The use of the fem label may be used within the gay community to insult one's manhood or lack of masculinity. Antonym (opposite) of the word masc
"Honey, those nails are on point, the face is beat, and the hair is snatched. Fem queen is stunting tonight." "No fats, no fems, no asians" (derogatory usage) "So you're lesbians, right? Which one is the fem and which is the guy?" (unintentionally derogatory usage)